Helpful tips tip on writing letters
Here are a few advices that have worked out very well for me in my time and they may help you in the future or understand Russian women.
Let's start from the very first letter. It should be informative but interesting the same time. Most all the letters I sent I always have got a response (over 95% or more). I wrote a full page that basically gave them a brief information about me, my family, desires and expectations and some general information.
But do not do the following:
I never mentioned dislikes. Never have anything negative information in your letters. Always stay positive and optimistic about life and things. We all have difficulties that we need to solve and from dating service we expect some romance but not problems.
Never write anything you not able to expand upon or deliver. Most Russian ladies will keep your letter if they want to pursue getting to know you better. They will ask about something you wrote ten letters ago to make sure whether you are honest.
Never use slang words. Write simple clear sentences. Good translation is important.
Don't talk much about your progress in business. Most ladies will not understand all the details that you find important. For them enough to know you are able to support a family. What they really would like to know what your personality is like, your outlook on life, relationships and family.
Please do not send your photo in company of friends, on the beach or any women around. First good impression can be made once only.
Never talk about "Russian" problems. No matter what you think or know about Russia or Ukraine you will never know it or see like Russians or Ukrainians do.
What really will work out for you the best
You stay in correspondence with person you have never seen in real life so try to stay an energetic and enthusiastic about life and about meeting that perfect someone to share your life with. This would say positive about you even if you had a tough day.
Be kind and polite at all times. Stay gentleman in every letter. Any woman values well mannered, educated man.
Try to write every letter with great curiosity to her and her life and things that may be important to her.
if your lady on correspondence has at least one child. You better to give her to know that you remember about this fact. Russian women appreciate and like to talk about their kids. In general they are good mothers.
If you use site requiring payments and every letter cost up to US $10 it would be kind of you to pay for your correspondence both ways. The living level is different and what seems minor for you for your Russian or Ukrainian correspondence partner would cost a penny.
The last and most important thing : you have to be the way you are. Write what you feel and try to avoid misunderstandings. Keep things real and in perspective. Women of all cultures want a man who is realistic. Russian women really need trust so do not break trust. Be honest, be yourself and most of all stay gentleman.
