More information about Slavonic women
Based on experience we have got we would like to share some pieces of advice with those who intend to meet and get married with a lady from FSU. Hopefully this information will help you to foresee some situations and analyze risks they might have not considered from the start.
On any dating site there are hundred stories of successful stories but we also know that in reality it is not always true.
Hopefully this article will help interested reader to have more information on dating issue.
Let’s start from personal expectations and opinions. Ask yourself what expectations you have from a woman Russian or Ukrainian woman particularly. The marriage is doomed to be unhappy between western man and Slavonic woman is that they do not share expectation from each together from the very beginning. There is an opinion among Slavonic that living abroad is much easier than in Russia, Ukraine… wealthy men, who now ho w to treat woman right, supportive, healthy, non drinking or smoking. List is longer actually. What ideas do western men have about Slavonic women? They believe that they very much depend on husband, live in poverty, they stay home all the time, cook, take care of kids. Moving to another country would be very important and challenging step in their lives. This is the idea that average person has about western and Slavonic people.
While browsing ladies’ catalogue one could find a great number of ladies pictures of extreme good quality. Nobody doubts that Slavonic women take the first place in the world as beauties. But also never forget that progress is constantly developing. Before photo session a woman makes her best to have a good looking- make up, clothing. If her profession is not a model she would never look that way in every day life. Though not every model takes a very good care of her appearance.
There are many good looking and nice ladies in the catalogue that may become your Ms. Right. Do you expect your lady to have model appearance? Or maybe you would fell more comfortable with a lady who has simpler appearance? One of the most frequent asked questions is how is possible that ladies in top lists or the most popular are still available? Beautiful ladies have more demands as you know. Be concentrated on the character and personal qualities that the chosen lady has. As they say:” a pretty face may not make you happy. “
Talking about age difference if you are, for instance, 50 we would not recommend you to look for ladies at age of 18 up to 30. Please do not misinterpret us here. Such age difference is not common in many places and many countries. Besides that statistic say that such relationship (especially when man is older her woman more than 20 years) do not lead to stable or honest relationship. Statistic is science and one should believe it. How do you think?
To have harmonious relationship one should pay attention not only to the age difference but also to the gaps in education and a social status. Also take into consideration similarity of interests, hobbies, what area for living would be good and acceptable for you and your partner.
Language is one of the most important aspects. Not many Slavonic women speak any foreign language in the beginning of their search for a western partner. That is why they come to international dating, marriage agencies for help. In most cases when they see that it does work out they start to learn it with a teacher or on their own. Both sides understand the importance of speaking the same language
Among important questions you both have to discuss are family values, mutual responsibilities, duties, financial aspects, employment. We would try to illustrate some of them for you to have a better understanding of your Russian bride and can avoid the problems you might have.
You could have different viewpoints about money. Russian ladies are not used to speak much about money and expenses, bills, etc. That is why it may influence your Ukrainian or Russian bride negatively when you start to speak a lot about this, accentuating how expensive life can be.
Your Slavonic wife would consider you to be the provider of your family and supporter for her and children financially in the very first months of the adaptation period and before she can work. Also take into consideration that she may help her parents financially and will continue to communicate with them. And this will be your expense item until she makes a living herself.
She will certainly want to visit them at least once per year.
If you have children from previous relationship (marriage) talk in advance what legal status a child will get your bride has to be informed your own children, whether they live with you or how often they continue to visit you. If you plan to have common children, discuss the language they will speak. This and more other questions will arise sooner or later. Take your time, sit and discuss it with your bride to avoid possible quarrels and misunderstandings.
Also the question of employment is important as well. Discus it with your bride and decide, what be the most comfortable for you both: your wife staying home as a housewife or she will work to help you.
When your bride comes to your country she has not idea of life style, lays or social standards. You will be the one who can help her to understand many things. Explain her in details what rights she has, what obligations. To avoid unnecessary quarrels try to make everything as clear as possible for her.
To have more understanding between you and your bride before marriage come to her country meet her parents, communicate with her friends. You will need it to have more understanding of mentality and your woman closer. Listen to what she says; the way she says, whether she is happy among those people she has around. Unhappy person is unhappy anywhere.
Our staff wishes you luck in your searching of your Ms. Right.
