What women really want and how to give it to them
A woman, more than anything else, wants to be cherished. And she wants to be with a man who will cherish her, value and make her feel safe. She wants a man she could trust. Trust allows her to be vulnerable and receptive to him.
Women do not want Macho actually, they want a Super Hero. Super Heroes are good guys who are a little sensitive, can be vulnerable, and are not afraid to show their feelings. Super Heroes know they have feelings and they know it is okay to have them. They are confident that they have "the right stuff," which makes them very attractive to women. Every guy could be a Super Hero since every girl wants to make her man a hero …for her.
Most women want a relationship with a good guy, not just a Saturday night date. So what is a good guy?
A good guy is Someone who is:
honest and listens. He does not interrupt her when she is speaking
self-confident enough to treat a woman like a woman
respectful and attentive. He pays attention to her first of all.
helps her with her coat, opens doors, pulls out chairs, picks up the checks
and treats women well.
He genuinely likes women and it shows in everything he does. Women want men to be men - someone who they feel safe with, who will protect them, who knows that when they say "women and children first" there will not even be a question of who goes first.
Most men are primarily visual, so they just need to see that they are valued by women. Often, women need to hear the words to know they are being cherished or receive kinesthetic cues such as a man doing something for them or giving them a token of his affection.
To resume aforesaid what women really want. Women always trust you when they feel save with you. Find ways to give it to them.
